In this day and age of social media we 'share' much of our lives online. People in Generation Y & Z have not known a world that wasn't, at least partly, digital. There are implications to sharing all this information about us. Life updates, and pictures of people in our lives can be either warm reminders, if they have passed on or painful ones of relationships gone sour, since many social media platforms are fond of reminding us what happened in the past. There are other moments you may not want to be reminded of as well, perhaps a traffic offense that gets picked up in the paper, and now will forever be available should anyone perform a quick search. Not all of this is bad or negative, but it is food for thought as to weather it should be that way. People are capable of changing their lives, should their pasts prevent them from moving on? These are ideas we have yet to find ways to deal with in this modern age, but food for thought.
Our digital tattoo or footprint will be following us around, so we hopefully are leaving more good to look at than bad. I was not sure what I expected when I performed a data mine on myself. I was mostly surprised for several reasons. I think of my name as fairly unique, but there are many with my name out there, even several in the area. I knew there we're other's in the area with my last name, even though they are no relation (I joke that Donofrio or D'Onofrio is the Italian equivalent of Smith), but was surprised to find a few with my first name as well. The images only brought up one of me, which is an old Facebook profile picture of me as a toddler. No search results yielded a current photo of me though.
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| I'm the one with the puppy. Image Source: Personal Screenshot |
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| Image Source: Personal Screenshot |
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| Image Source: Personal Screenshot |
All in all, I was not embarrassed or worried about what came up in the search of me, in fact I was surprised at how little there was! I am working at creating a more professional, and visible web presence, to show my growth as an educator.
Further Reading: The Tyranny of the Internet is Forever



Hello, Melissa,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing. I enjoyed reading your thoughts about leaving the past behind. It made me think of a favorite quote of mine from playwright August Wilson. Wilson states: When the sins of our fathers visit us we do not have to play host. We can banish them with forgiveness. As God, in His Largeness and Laws.
When I did my search, family members (my wife's family) popped up. In my case it is fine, but I wonder what it would be like if the name that popped up were someone who had either caused my pain or shame. Not being able to leave the shadow of one's own "sins" is tough, but imagine how tough it would be to live down those of associates and family members.
Hi Melissa,
ReplyDeleteWe’ve focused a lot this week on how your digital tattoo will be perceived by others, but I found your comment about what your digital tattoo will mean to yourself to be interesting. I’m sure there are many people who despise the Memories feature on Facebook and other similar platforms. Fortunately, you can at least go back and delete your own old posts to not see them again in future years, but it can be scary how much is posted about us that we don’t have control over.
I’m glad to hear you feel alright about what you were able to find about yourself. I was able to piece together a lot about myself through the people search sites, but I’m not too bothered by what was listed since a lot of it is just commonly considered public information. The only thing I ended up feeling a little uncomfortable about was my full birthdate and home address.
Do you think this is a topic that should be addressed with students in school? I do think it is important as they can face very negative repercussions from things they post without thinking. I think parents really need to be involved in teaching their children about digital citizenship and safety too though, since they do a lot more social media posting at home than at school.
Thanks for sharing!
- Allison
So what are your thoughts about introducing this to students? Should educators be teaching about digital tattoos?
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